{"id":1080,"date":"2014-01-12T20:28:26","date_gmt":"2014-01-13T03:28:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/affirmation.org\/?page_id=1080"},"modified":"2021-10-03T08:06:25","modified_gmt":"2021-10-03T14:06:25","slug":"one-year-since-i-came-out","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/es\/recursos-2\/saliendo\/historias-de-salida\/un-ano-desde-que-sali-del-armario\/","title":{"rendered":"Un a\u00f1o desde que sal\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><span><a href=\"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/austin_kempton.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12555 alignright\" alt=\"Austin_kempton\" src=\"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/austin_kempton.jpg\" width=\"220\" height=\"147\" srcset=\"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/austin_kempton.jpg 220w, https:\/\/affirmation.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/austin_kempton-82x55.jpg 82w, https:\/\/affirmation.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/austin_kempton-75x50.jpg 75w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 220px) 100vw, 220px\" \/><\/a><\/span><strong style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>\u00bb <a href=\"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/es\/recursos-2\/saliendo\/historias-de-salida\">Historias que salen del armario<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\u201cHoy estoy m\u00e1s feliz que nunca. \u00a1Puedo respirar al aire libre! Puedo mirarme en el espejo sin ning\u00fan arrepentimiento &quot;<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>por Austin Kempton<br \/>\nPublicado originalmente en\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/holdtohisrod.blogspot.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Blog de Austin<\/a><\/strong>. Publicado con el permiso del autor.<\/p>\n<p>Mayo de 2009<\/p>\n<p>La noche del 13 de mayo de 2008, le dije a mi padre que era gay. Le dijo a mi madre m\u00e1s tarde esa noche. No fue hasta dos o tres semanas despu\u00e9s que realmente asociaron la palabra &quot;gay&quot; conmigo, en lugar de simplemente decir que hab\u00eda &quot;experimentado&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>Este a\u00f1o ha sido todo un viaje. Ese primer mes en s\u00ed mismo fue turbulento. Me arrastr\u00e9 fuera del armario y me vi por primera vez de verdad. De hecho, me llam\u00e9 gay por primera vez en voz alta, y ning\u00fan rayo vino a golpearme. Estaba emocionado de compartir los sentimientos y pensamientos que hab\u00eda estado aislando en mi cabeza. Estaba dram\u00e1ticamente deprimido por no poder\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/web.archive.org\/web\/20131217110554\/https:\/\/affirmation.org\/mission\/\">servir una misi\u00f3n<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>El resto del a\u00f1o fue mejorando lentamente. Ten\u00eda tantas ganas de cambiar y ser el &quot;joven SUD normal&quot; y\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/es\/?s=mixed-orientation marriage\">casarse con una mujer<\/a><\/strong>. fui a\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/es\/therapy\">terapia<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0y me ilusion\u00e9. Poco despu\u00e9s de comenzar, me di cuenta de que no iba a funcionar. Me inscrib\u00ed en CHANGE, y todo lo que pod\u00edan prometerme era que mis sentimientos homosexuales &quot;bajaran&quot; y &quot;crearan&quot; sentimientos por el sexo opuesto.<\/p>\n<p>Quer\u00eda dejar la terapia en ese mismo momento, en ese momento de realizaci\u00f3n, pero la terapia me ofreci\u00f3 algo m\u00e1s. No es un cambio, sino un momento para hablar sobre mis sentimientos en un entorno sin prejuicios. No ten\u00eda a nadie con quien hablar hasta entonces. Mi familia no lo entendi\u00f3 o quer\u00eda saberlo. No conoc\u00eda a los gays (y mucho menos a los mormones gays). As\u00ed que incluso hablar de los aspectos &quot;negativos&quot; de la homosexualidad con un terapeuta segu\u00eda hablando y pude expresar mis sentimientos abiertamente.<\/p>\n<p>Pero acababa de salir del armario y me ped\u00edan que volviera a entrar. Fue traum\u00e1tico. Hubo algunas ocasiones en las que tuve que escabullirme. Esta vida de esconderse y escabullirse era miserable y malsana.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de nueve meses de terapia, volv\u00ed a salir. Esta vez me estaba quedando sin armario. Estoy muy agradecido por todos los amigos que me ayudaron a llegar all\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Hoy soy m\u00e1s feliz que nunca. \u00a1Puedo respirar al aire libre! Puedo mirarme en el espejo sin ning\u00fan arrepentimiento. No me preocupo por dejar que la gente vea qui\u00e9n soy realmente.<\/p>\n<p>Yo conozco a Dios. El me ama.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bb Historias de salida del armario \u201cHoy soy m\u00e1s feliz que nunca. \u00a1Puedo respirar aire puro! Puedo mirarme al espejo sin ning\u00fan remordimiento\u201d por Austin Kempton Publicado originalmente en el blog de Austin. Republicado con el permiso del autor. 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