{"id":25634,"date":"2019-05-03T15:23:00","date_gmt":"2019-05-03T21:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/?page_id=25634"},"modified":"2019-09-13T09:54:52","modified_gmt":"2019-09-13T15:54:52","slug":"these-attractions-are-not-a-choice","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/es\/tu\/padres-2\/que-dice-la-iglesia\/estas-atracciones-no-son-una-eleccion\/","title":{"rendered":"Estas atracciones no son una opci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>En el pasado, los or\u00edgenes de la homosexualidad se han confundido con mitos y folclore. Una extensa investigaci\u00f3n ha revelado que la orientaci\u00f3n sexual no es una elecci\u00f3n. La iglesia est\u00e1 de acuerdo con esta evaluaci\u00f3n cient\u00edfica y ha declarado claramente que la orientaci\u00f3n homosexual es una realidad compleja que no se elige.<\/p>\n<p>Uno de los mitos invocados a menudo en el pasado reciente afirma que la homosexualidad se debe al abuso sexual infantil. Aunque el abuso sexual puede ser muy traum\u00e1tico, no hay evidencia de que tenga alg\u00fan impacto en la orientaci\u00f3n sexual. Hay personas homosexuales y heterosexuales que han sido abusadas sexualmente, y pueden sufrir los efectos de por vida de este trauma, pero no existe una relaci\u00f3n entre esto y la orientaci\u00f3n sexual (aunque el trauma del abuso puede tener otros efectos en la sexualidad de una persona).<\/p>\n<p>Otra teor\u00eda absolutamente desacreditada por la investigaci\u00f3n y la experiencia es que la homosexualidad en los hombres es causada por un padre lejano y una madre autoritaria. Estas ideas fueron propuestas por Sigmund Freud bas\u00e1ndose en su creencia en el complejo de Edipo. Hay homosexuales que tienen padres amorosos y madres lejanas. Hay homosexuales que tienen madres amorosas y padres lejanos. Hay homosexuales que tienen padres amorosos. No hay conexi\u00f3n entre sus relaciones con los padres y su orientaci\u00f3n sexual.<\/p>\n<p>Es importante darse cuenta de que la homosexualidad no se elige simplemente porque nos ayuda a comprender la experiencia de nuestro hijo. Se confunden cuando surgen estos sentimientos sexuales, generalmente durante la adolescencia temprana. Reciben mensajes de su comunidad de que no deber\u00edan tener estos sentimientos y tratan de reprimirlos. Interiorizan la culpa y la verg\u00fcenza, incluso antes de haber actuado sobre estos sentimientos. Esto conduce a la depresi\u00f3n y la desesperaci\u00f3n, porque a menudo se averg\u00fcenzan de hablar de ello y ni siquiera saben c\u00f3mo decirles a sus padres por lo que est\u00e1n pasando.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cuando los padres se dan cuenta de que su hijo adolescente no eligi\u00f3 estos sentimientos, les resulta m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil escuchar a su hijo con compasi\u00f3n y empat\u00eda y, por lo tanto, pueden guiar a su hijo con amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Citas de l\u00edderes de la iglesia<\/h2>\n<p>El sitio web de la Iglesia, <a href=\"https:\/\/gayandmormon.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">gayandmormon.org<\/a>, dice: &quot;Aunque las personas no eligen tener tales atracciones, eligen c\u00f3mo responder a ellas&quot;.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lds.org\/manual\/god-loveth-his-children\/god-loveth-his-children?lang=eng\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Dios ama a sus hijos<\/a> dice:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cConf\u00eda en el Se\u00f1or. No culpes a nadie, ni a ti mismo, ni a tus padres, ni a Dios, por los problemas que no se comprenden completamente en esta vida &quot;.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAlgunas personas han sido abusadas durante los primeros a\u00f1os de vida o se han involucrado en la experimentaci\u00f3n sexual a una edad temprana. Si esto le ha sucedido a usted, por favor comprenda que el abuso por parte de otros o las experiencias de la juventud no debe crear un sentimiento presente de culpa, indignidad o rechazo por parte de Dios o Su Iglesia. Las travesuras inocentes en una etapa temprana de la vida no predisponen a un joven a la atracci\u00f3n por personas del mismo sexo en la edad adulta &quot;.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>en un <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mormonnewsroom.org\/article\/interview-oaks-wickman-same-gender-attraction\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Entrevista de 2006 con el \u00e9lder Dallin H. Oaks y el \u00e9lder Lance B. Wickman sobre la atracci\u00f3n hacia personas del mismo sexo<\/a>, Dijo el \u00e9lder Oaks, \u201cLa Iglesia no tiene una posici\u00f3n sobre las causas de ninguna de estas susceptibilidades o inclinaciones, incluidas las relacionadas con la atracci\u00f3n por personas del mismo sexo. Esas son preguntas cient\u00edficas, ya sea sobre la naturaleza o la crianza, esas son cosas en las que la Iglesia no tiene una posici\u00f3n &quot;.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9lder Holland, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lds.org\/study\/ensign\/2007\/10\/helping-those-who-struggle-with-same-gender-attraction?lang=eng\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">en un art\u00edculo de Ensign<\/a>, le dice a un joven con atracci\u00f3n por el mismo sexo, &quot;... la causa de tus sentimientos, es posible que nunca lo sepamos en esta vida&quot;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pr\u00f3ximo:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/es\/tu\/padres-2\/que-dice-la-iglesia\/estas-atracciones-no-son-pecaminosas\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u00bfEs pecado tener estas atracciones?<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/es\/tu\/padres-2\/que-dice-la-iglesia\/#questions\">Todas las preguntas<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the past, the origins of homosexuality have been confused by myths and folklore. Extensive research has revealed that sexual orientation is not a choice. The church agrees with this scientific assessment and has clearly stated that homosexual orientation is a complex reality that is not chosen. 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