{"id":1080,"date":"2014-01-12T20:28:26","date_gmt":"2014-01-13T03:28:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/affirmation.org\/?page_id=1080"},"modified":"2021-10-03T08:06:25","modified_gmt":"2021-10-03T14:06:25","slug":"one-year-since-i-came-out","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/pt\/recursos-2\/saindo\/historias-de-revelacao\/um-ano-desde-que-sai\/","title":{"rendered":"Um ano desde que sa\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u00bb Novidades<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cHoje estou mais feliz do que nunca. Eu posso respirar ao ar livre! Eu posso me olhar no espelho sem qualquer arrependimento \u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n

por Austin Kempton
\nPostado originalmente em\u00a0Blog de Austin<\/a><\/strong>. Postado novamente com a permiss\u00e3o do autor.<\/p>\n

Maio de 2009<\/p>\n

Na noite de 13 de maio de 2008, disse a meu pai que era gay. Ele contou para minha m\u00e3e mais tarde naquela noite. Foi s\u00f3 duas ou tr\u00eas semanas depois que eles realmente associaram a palavra "gay" a mim, em vez de apenas dizer que eu havia "experimentado".<\/p>\n

Este ano foi uma grande jornada. Aquele primeiro m\u00eas foi turbulento. Eu rastejei para fora do arm\u00e1rio e tive minha primeira vis\u00e3o real de mim mesma. Na verdade, eu me chamei de gay pela primeira vez em voz alta, e nenhum raio veio me derrubar. Eu estava animado para compartilhar os sentimentos e pensamentos que eu estava isolando em minha cabe\u00e7a. Fiquei dramaticamente deprimido por n\u00e3o ser capaz de\u00a0servir uma miss\u00e3o<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

O resto do ano foi melhorando lentamente. Eu queria tanto mudar e ser o \u201cjovem SUD normal\u201d e\u00a0casar com uma mulher<\/a><\/strong>. eu fui para\u00a0terapia<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0e tive muitas esperan\u00e7as. Pouco depois de come\u00e7ar, percebi que n\u00e3o ia funcionar. Eu me inscrevi na CHANGE, e tudo o que eles podiam me prometer era que meus sentimentos gays \u201cca\u00edssem\u201d e \u201ccriassem\u201d sentimentos para o sexo oposto.<\/p>\n

Eu queria parar a terapia naquele momento e naquele momento de realiza\u00e7\u00e3o, mas a terapia me ofereceu outra coisa. N\u00e3o muda, mas \u00e9 hora de falar sobre meus sentimentos em um ambiente sem julgamento. N\u00e3o tinha com quem conversar at\u00e9 ent\u00e3o. Minha fam\u00edlia n\u00e3o entendeu ou n\u00e3o quer ouvir sobre isso. Eu n\u00e3o conhecia gays (muito menos m\u00f3rmons gays). Portanto, mesmo falar sobre os aspectos \u201cnegativos\u201d da homossexualidade com um terapeuta ainda era uma conversa e eu era capaz de deixar meus sentimentos expostos.<\/p>\n

Mas eu tinha acabado de sair do arm\u00e1rio e me pediram para voltar. Foi traum\u00e1tico. Houve algumas vezes que eu simplesmente tive que escapar. Esta vida de se esconder e se esgueirar era miser\u00e1vel e doentia.<\/p>\n

Ap\u00f3s nove meses de terapia, voltei ao normal. Desta vez, eu estava correndo para fora do arm\u00e1rio. Sou muito grato por todos os amigos que me ajudaram a chegar l\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Hoje estou mais feliz do que nunca. Eu posso respirar ao ar livre! Posso me olhar no espelho sem nenhum arrependimento. N\u00e3o me preocupo em deixar que as pessoas vejam quem eu realmente sou.<\/p>\n

Eu conhe\u00e7o Deus. Ele me ama.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00bb Hist\u00f3rias de Sa\u00edda do Arm\u00e1rio \u201cHoje estou mais feliz do que nunca. Posso respirar ar puro! Posso me olhar no espelho sem nenhum arrependimento\u201d por Austin Kempton Publicado originalmente no blog de Austin. Republicado com a permiss\u00e3o do autor. 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