{"id":24736,"date":"2019-04-09T09:27:52","date_gmt":"2019-04-09T15:27:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/?p=24736"},"modified":"2021-10-03T16:32:06","modified_gmt":"2021-10-03T22:32:06","slug":"we-need-to-learn-to-live-in-the-paradoxical-state-of-weeping-and-rejoicing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/pt\/nos-precisamos-aprender-a-viver-no-estado-paradoxal-de-chorar-e-regozijar-nos\/","title":{"rendered":"Precisamos aprender a viver no estado paradoxal de choro e alegria"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-24739 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-Girl-Prism-Light.jpg\" alt=\"Luz de prisma feminino feminino\" width=\"2400\" height=\"1260\" srcset=\"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-Girl-Prism-Light.jpg 2400w, https:\/\/affirmation.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-Girl-Prism-Light-300x158.jpg 300w, https:\/\/affirmation.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-Girl-Prism-Light-768x403.jpg 768w, https:\/\/affirmation.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-Girl-Prism-Light-1024x538.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/affirmation.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-Girl-Prism-Light-633x333.jpg 633w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2400px) 100vw, 2400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>por Blaire Ostler<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Submetido \u00e0 Afirma\u00e7\u00e3o ap\u00f3s a revers\u00e3o de A Igreja de Jesus Cristo dos Santos dos \u00daltimos Dias de suas mudan\u00e7as de pol\u00edtica de novembro de 2015 que proibiam filhos de pais LGBTQ de serem aben\u00e7oados e batizados e caracterizavam membros da igreja que se casavam pelo mesmo sexo como ap\u00f3statas. Essas mudan\u00e7as se tornaram conhecidas na comunidade LGBTQ M\u00f3rmon como a &quot;pol\u00edtica de exclus\u00e3o&quot;, &quot;pol\u00edtica de exclus\u00e3o&quot; ou &quot;PoX&quot;. No dia seguinte ao an\u00fancio da revers\u00e3o desta pol\u00edtica, Nathan Kitchen, Presidente da Afirma\u00e7\u00e3o, convidou todos os que estivessem dispostos a compartilhar seus sentimentos aut\u00eanticos e todas as suas hist\u00f3rias de pesar, raiva, al\u00edvio, tristeza, felicidade, confus\u00e3o, o que quer que seja que esteja ao redor a rescis\u00e3o desta pol\u00edtica. \u201cComo presidente da Afirma\u00e7\u00e3o, quero ter certeza de que a Afirma\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o esconde voc\u00ea ou suas hist\u00f3rias \u00e0 medida que avan\u00e7amos\u201d, escreveu Kitchen em seu convite. Se voc\u00ea tiver rea\u00e7\u00f5es ou uma hist\u00f3ria para compartilhar sobre a revers\u00e3o da pol\u00edtica de exclus\u00e3o, envie para\u00a0<a href=\"mailto:submissions@affirmation.org\">submissions@affirmation.org<\/a>. Voc\u00ea tamb\u00e9m pode\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/affirmation.org\/pt\/tag\/nov-15-policy-gay-families-reversal\">leia outras hist\u00f3rias e rea\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 revers\u00e3o da pol\u00edtica de exclus\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Caros amigos,<\/p>\n<p>Com rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s altera\u00e7\u00f5es de pol\u00edtica mais recentes, h\u00e1 algumas coisas que eu gostaria que voc\u00ea soubesse.<\/p>\n<p>Por favor, saiba que pessoas queer foram profundamente prejudicadas pela Pol\u00edtica de Exclus\u00e3o (POX) e, no que me diz respeito, pessoas queer podem levar todo o tempo que precisarmos para processar essas altera\u00e7\u00f5es mais recentes. Essas pol\u00edticas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o apenas teoria ou tangencial para n\u00f3s. S\u00e3o experi\u00eancias vividas por n\u00f3s e nossos filhos.<\/p>\n<p>Por favor, saiba, para algumas pessoas queer, este \u00e9 um relacionamento abusivo cl\u00e1ssico. O agressor bate em voc\u00ea, ent\u00e3o eles fazem algo com remorso. Eles batem em voc\u00ea de novo alguns dias depois, e ent\u00e3o fazem algo de remorso. Vamos girar e girar. A comunidade queer est\u00e1 passando por uma chicotada. Aliados, por favor, sejam sens\u00edveis ao fato de que, ao comemorar o remorso de nosso agressor (o que n\u00e3o \u00e9 inerentemente errado em si), pare\u00e7a que voc\u00ea esqueceu que ainda estamos nos curando da \u00faltima vez que eles nos atingiram.<\/p>\n<p>Saiba que voc\u00ea n\u00e3o pode contar a uma v\u00edtima de abuso quando \u00e9 hora de perdoar, seguir em frente e comemorar. Faremos isso quando estivermos prontos, e cada um de n\u00f3s far\u00e1 isso de maneira diferente. Essa dor e trauma n\u00e3o desaparecem apenas com uma mudan\u00e7a de pol\u00edtica, ou mesmo um pedido de desculpas (que ainda n\u00e3o aconteceu).<\/p>\n<p>Por favor, saibam que mantenho firmemente que as pessoas queer que foram excomungadas e \/ ou disciplinadas por quest\u00f5es LGBTQ + devem ter sua excomunh\u00e3o revogada e emitida uma reintegra\u00e7\u00e3o total. Acho que as crian\u00e7as que tiveram suas b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3os de beb\u00eas e batismos cancelados deveriam receber desculpas. Sim, acho que os irm\u00e3os, como mordomos da Igreja, deveriam se desculpar com as crian\u00e7as afetadas pelo POX.<\/p>\n<p>Saiba que precisamos aprender a viver no estado paradoxal de choro e alegria (Romanos 12:15). Temos permiss\u00e3o para uma ampla gama de emo\u00e7\u00f5es. Voc\u00ea pode sentir raiva, frustra\u00e7\u00e3o, alegria, euforia, dor, tristeza, esperan\u00e7a, ceticismo, f\u00e9 e perd\u00e3o. Estou sentindo todas essas emo\u00e7\u00f5es neste exato momento, e elas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o mutuamente exclusivas.<\/p>\n<p>Saiba que esta pol\u00edtica ainda n\u00e3o aborda quest\u00f5es de g\u00eanero. Homens trans e todas as mulheres (queer, heterossexuais, cis, trans, intersex, ou outros) ainda n\u00e3o t\u00eam participa\u00e7\u00e3o total nesses rituais. At\u00e9 que todos os g\u00eaneros sejam ordenados, nossos rituais continuar\u00e3o a ser excludentes, mesmo al\u00e9m da comunidade queer e do POX.<\/p>\n<p>Por favor, saibam que eu comemoro essa queda no balde, porque \u00e9 assim que os baldes s\u00e3o enchidos. A mudan\u00e7a tende a ser lenta e dolorosa para aqueles de n\u00f3s que tiveram que lutar por cada gota. O ativismo n\u00e3o vem com uma estrela de ouro para os ativistas que o tornaram poss\u00edvel. Alguns v\u00e3o nos desprezar e ridicularizar por nosso trabalho para impedir o abuso e, ao mesmo tempo, elogiar o agressor que finalmente nos ouviu. Ativismo n\u00e3o \u00e9 popularidade. \u00c9 sobre encher o balde com cada gota essencial, mesmo que as pessoas o desprezem por isso. Eu comemoro essa queda com voc\u00eas, porque essa foi a nossa queda. Foi nosso ativismo queer que tornou poss\u00edvel essa queda espec\u00edfica.<\/p>\n<p>Saiba que, de modo geral, essas mudan\u00e7as s\u00e3o boas. Isso prepara o terreno para melhorias adicionais, mesmo que apenas em potencial. \u00c9 um passo na dire\u00e7\u00e3o certa. Na medida em que essas mudan\u00e7as est\u00e3o lan\u00e7ando as bases para mais inclus\u00e3o, eu as apoio.<\/p>\n<p>Quanto \u00e0 Igreja e seus l\u00edderes, por favor, saiba que agrade\u00e7o por me ouvir. Voc\u00ea fez a coisa certa e aplaudo sua disposi\u00e7\u00e3o de reverter essas pol\u00edticas. Mas, por favor, n\u00e3o me bata de novo. N\u00e3o aproveite a minha disposi\u00e7\u00e3o de me reconciliar com voc\u00ea como uma oportunidade para me bater novamente.<\/p>\n<p>Atenciosamente, uma irm\u00e3 m\u00f3rmon queer<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Alguns v\u00e3o nos desprezar e ridicularizar por nosso trabalho para impedir o abuso e, ao mesmo tempo, elogiar o agressor que finalmente nos ouviu. 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